Thursday, November 22, 2007

A Blogger's Insight !!

Der comes a point in evryone's life whn u tend to thnk "Agar aisa hota to kya hota??" ...D enormous possibilities hd somethin or d other worked fr u...bt den again I guess neither does life give u a second chance nor does time wait fr u...so people generally move on bt memories linger on nd later on dese images in ur mind tend to hurt nd haunt u at times whn d goin getz tough...I dont knw hw many of u hav felt dis wy but it used to happen to me too...Bt I ws fortunate to hav a friend who used to defy logic at times (ekdum 'bindas' type attitude...happy-go-lucky kinda person...evn in d most tryin conditions...jaise maano life mein koi tension hai hi nahi)...so one fine day I asked him ki hw he cud keep himself dry evn in drownin pressure...his answer ws simple "What u do tday is history tmrw nd I want to live in d present...U cannot change wht u hav already done...so y waste time thinkin abt it...der r probably a dozen more things I want to do in life...And if I let myself tied down by pressure probably I wont justify myself...So I focus on d job at hand nd try nd giv it my best shot...I become oblivious of d rest of d world den !!"

Wont say I completely agree wid wht he said but it did hav an influence nd I did learn somethin dat day...Read on to find dem somewer out der in d maze... :)

Life is too short if u come to compare it wid d existence of human race...And if u start thinkin of ur past u r actually wastin ur time out der...I am not exactly sayin "Forget abt ur past"...bt take all d gud things in life...things which hav atleast brought a smile to someone...Keep dem ...dey wll bail u out in tryin situations...nd dey r memories to cherish...Although learn frm ur mistakes nd try nt to brood ovr dem...Mistakes in life r sometimes encouraged becoz dey refine u as an individual...And ya since ur stay in paradise is limited make d most of it...Live it Up!!:)

People contribute to dis world in various wayz...Some in pain nd some in glory...bt den again u probably dont hav a job if u r not enjoyin it...Some try to find solace in wht dey r doin nd try hard to convince others dat dey like it...bt d stark reality s sometimes awful...So dont get caught up in somethin u never liked jus to win ur daily bread...Evryone s special in one way or d other nd der hs to b somethin which u luv doin nd which cn earn u a livin...Do It!!:)

In matters of love listen to ur heart...If at any point u feel d vibes r nt der den probably u hav lost ur love to someone somewer...Bt sometimes we take each other fr granted...Datz actually d breakin point in ny relationship...Great relationships r dose wer d love quotient s d same all throughout...And yes never love someone who doesnt love u as much..In dat case one of u s making a compromise fr some reason!!...But if u do love someone dearly and u knw itz d same d other way round den never hold back...Giv it all...U are Made for Each Other!!:)

Ur family and close frndz r d only ones who will stand by u durin hard times...And itz hard to find true frndz in a materialistic world...So respect nd cherish their company...Ur family s ur backbone...U r no-one without dem ...Support ur parents whn u r able to do so...Dey hav raised u to depend on u...Make dem Proud !!:)

All dis mite sound a bit philosophical bt dey do make a lot of sense whn u come to think of it in practical terms nd to me dey to an extent do resemble who nd wht we r tday. A very personal post after a long time...Just felt like writin abt it !!...Hope I did make some sense !!:)

Note: Can somone justify d image selected fr d post??...I actually gav it a lot of thought !!

16 Comments:

Blogger Sari said...

"...a very personal post" its indeed the one but i think that is 4 bloggers are to pen down your thoughts..your views... it will be there with you for always :]

vaisey ...very good post .. ekdum JHAKAAS

12:23 PM, November 25, 2007  
Blogger S@M said...

thnx...hw did u come across my blog ??..nd btw am chkin out ur blog too !! :)

5:51 PM, November 25, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

there are some ppl who have and some who dont...u are one of the former....good one...keep writing :)

6:00 PM, November 26, 2007  
Blogger Sari said...

:)) i just checked up thru ur frnd blogger..n now dnt ask me how i gt his bcz i myself dnt remember how.

n yes about the image u selected..
your way of seeing the world..all RED in color.. and u know what red color stands for ..best of luck boy u r in love.
ohk ohhk i m nt jumping onto conclusion..actually it al depends on the ppls perspective as how they see it while reading ur post..

2:13 AM, November 27, 2007  
Blogger S@M said...

wish ur words wer true...actually i lost someone in luv...nd d heart in a RED coloured ocean reflects pain (as in blood spill)!!

4:22 AM, November 27, 2007  
Blogger Sari said...

I can only say that it is you who have to decide whether your glass is half empty or half filled.

Anyways thanks for your id's will surely chat with you sometime. In b/w you keep your blogger running ... somebody will wait for your updates...c ya

1:36 AM, November 30, 2007  
Blogger Manohar said...

dude.. sweet memories will always be there to treasure...I like what you have written about family.. they are the ones who will be there for life..

7:06 PM, December 03, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hmm.....
i guess da best way 4 ny1 to survive in this chaotic world 'as u say' is just by leaving in da present n loving wat ever u do rather dan repenting....

n sum1 acc. to me can give dis kind of thought when da person realises the importance of watever u said ,all of a sudden coz sumthing may have hurt the person or nything dat sort of!!!
well its just my way of luking into da thing.... not going personal....:)
giving words to these kind of thoughts is really appreciable.... :)
again gud post....
carry on
njoy as u say!!!

5:46 PM, January 16, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Optimistic Girl
I love the Pic for your blog, red is the color of passion, strength, powerful feelings, family is the most important, and yes if you do not get loved back as much,then it is a compromise. keep writing your feelings, they are so honest, I felt it in my heart when I read your stuff."Life Is Huge" live it.....

9:59 AM, January 18, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi

i have tagged for my post in quirky....
hope u will continue the chain:)

for more details,visit
http://gyratinggalaxy.blogspot.com/2008/01/who-me-quirky.html

9:38 PM, January 24, 2008  
Blogger Manohar said...

saab, naa likhne ki kasam khai hai kya?

2:44 PM, February 04, 2008  
Blogger S@M said...

@manohar: sir em fightin to find some time...likhne ko bohut kuch hai...par thoda time mil jaye bas...dont wry wll b bck wid new posts soon !!! :)

5:46 PM, February 09, 2008  
Blogger S@M said...

@gyrating galaxy: wll def continue the chain...hd been rily busy d past few dayz...jus gimme some time !!!

5:48 PM, February 09, 2008  
Blogger S@M said...

@reema: thnx !!! :)

5:50 PM, February 09, 2008  
Blogger travel30 said...

wow....... today I am first time on your blog and become fan of your writing. I want to congratulate you for having an amazing writing ability which makes your blogs very much readable and interesting. Rohit Tripathi

latest Post :Urgent vacancy for the post of Girl Friend…

6:36 PM, February 15, 2008  
Blogger S@M said...

@rohit : thnx a lot mate !!

1:03 AM, March 16, 2008  

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